How a Gratitude Practice Can Reset Your Writing Life

How a Gratitude Practice Can Reset Your Writing Life

What would happen if you paused after every writing session—not to criticize what didn’t go well, but to appreciate what did? What if you made space to reflect on what writing gives you, not just what it demands? This week, I’m revisiting a practice that’s been pivotal in both my personal recovery and my writing life: Gratitude.

And yes, we’ve talked about this before. But some topics never run out of steam—and this one’s worth pulling out of the vault.

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How to Avoid the First Draft Rewriting Trap in Your Fiction Novel

How to Avoid the First Draft Rewriting Trap in Your Fiction Novel

You sit down to write, but five minutes later you’re still staring at the same sentence—rewriting, deleting, rewriting again. You tell yourself you’re “just tweaking.” But deep down, you know what’s really happening: You’re stuck in perfection mode. It’s a trap. You know it, but can’t seem to stop. This week I’m breaking down why this happens and how to avoid it.

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How to Celebrate Your Writing Wins and Set Yourself Up for a Confident 2025

How to Celebrate Your Writing Wins and Set Yourself Up for a Confident 2025

The 2024 writing season is winding down, and I have a question for you… 
Have you taken a moment to acknowledge everything you did in the last year? 
Have you looked at what you are proud of and really let it sink in—deep into your heart and bones?
If you're like me, I bet you haven't done that yet; maybe it's not even on your radar, but I'm going to invite you (both of us) to make it a priority before the clock strikes twelve on January 1.  

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Why Every Word Matters: Even the Crappy Ones

Why Every Word Matters: Even the Crappy Ones

Encouragement for the frustrated writer.

Writing can be maddening when the words won’t come, or we don’t like what we write. Sometimes, it can feel like a waste of time to plot story events that we can’t see clearly because they’ll probably all change anyway. 

And what about when we write a handful of chapters and realize the story started in the wrong place, or we didn’t quite have our main character’s trajectory as mapped out as we thought, and we need to start over?

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Why Never Giving Up on Your Writing Dreams Matters

Why Never Giving Up on Your Writing Dreams Matters

Author Joshua Moehling, shares his journey from his early childhood dreams of being Stephen King, to facing reality and rejection from the publishing world, to eventually succeeding in accomplishing his dream of becoming a published author.

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Breaking Through Doubt and Embracing Your Unique Voice as an Author

Breaking Through Doubt and Embracing Your Unique Voice as an Author

How do you come back from the dead?

Recover from being told who you are and what you write is wrong?

From bending yourself around like a pretzel trying to fit someone else's writing mold only to figure out that it’s pointless because it sucked the joy and life out of what you stand for?

If you write dark, spicy romance in the wheelhouses of sci-fi or fantasy, or if you struggle to express your voice in writing, you don’t want to miss this conversation.

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Announcing The Write It Scared Podcast - Why I’m Doing It Scared!

Announcing The Write It Scared Podcast - Why I’m Doing It Scared!

This podcast for fiction writers has been a dream of mine for a long time and I want to share with you the why behind it.

The Mission: Tell the truth about why writing a novel is so hard by acknowledging that most writers grapple with two stories: the one they want to put on the page to the best of their ability and the often subconscious internal story that prevents them from doing it.

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How to Find a Writing Community That Will Help You Accomplish Your Goals
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How to Find a Writing Community That Will Help You Accomplish Your Goals

Even when we have dozens of characters dancing through our minds, this writing business can get damn lonely. We have big ideas and exciting plots to explore, but many of us don't have anyone to share with, especially when we're new. If you are looking for a community, I wholeheartedly encourage you to find your tribe because the benefits far outweigh the cost!

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How to Create Writing Habits that Stick: Applying Atomic Habits
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How to Create Writing Habits that Stick: Applying Atomic Habits

We’re fifteen days into 2024, and I bet most of us are still feeling the freshness, motivation, and excitement of all the opportunities to come … but, sadly, experience teaches that motivation only lasts so long.

What really keeps us in the game is our habits.

Cultivating good writing habits in service of the changes we want to make and the people we want to become.

That’s the secret sauce. Here’s how to do it!

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